Tuna Salad and Lotus 1-2-3

In recognition of International Women’s Day on March 8, JDA CEO Girish Rishi writes about a remarkable woman who gave him a life-changing opportunity as a young college student.

I don’t remember ever facing prejudice.

I have lived in three continents, traveled to 40 countries, spent time in rural places and in urban settings, worked in small and large companies.

I only remember meeting people; kind people who have given me an assist, a crutch, advice, opportunity and loads of critical feedback.

I have no explanation for their act of generosity.

A west coast executive gave me a break barely interviewing me, an old MIT physicist tore up my analysis only to refine my reasoning, a scientist made a bet on me when I did not have any qualifications, a Scandinavian manager took a gamble with me and sent me across the Atlantic when he had no justification to, an HR leader taught me what taking on more responsibility meant, people in various countries patiently taught me their local ways, an accomplished general manager showed me the levers of business, and Fortune 500 CEOs have challenged and counseled me.

There have been many, but without Margery Steinberg, there wouldn’t be any.

I arrived at the university with tuition for the first semester and an additional $100. I was aware that soon, very soon, I needed to find a job. I heard talk about a graduate assistant position with a department head in the business school. I was told she was discerning in her selection, and that I should not bother applying because the effort would be in vain.

I applied and was called in. That fall morning in Connecticut was beautiful. Cold crisp air and autumn leaves fluttering around everywhere like confetti. In my only formal attire—grey trousers and blue shirt, well-laced black shoes, I entered Dr. Margery Steinberg’s office. She was tall, attractive and well dressed. A firm handshake and we sat down to talk. She asked me questions which I answered to the best of my ability. Then she asked me if I had used a computer. I said yes, and quietly muttered “once.” My heart sank as she said with a regretful gesture, that the job I was interviewing for would require Lotus 1-2-3 and MultiMate Advantage skills in good abundance. I remember muttering “I will learn it.”

That afternoon Margery called and offered the job to me. It was the most joyous day of my life. I had accomplished something.

The next seven days I lived in the computer lab on campus that used to stay open for 24 hours. My memory of the seven days—days and nights—is of plugging away at Lotus 1-2-3 commands and twice a day munching on tuna salad sandwiches. When monotony set in, I would open MultiMate Advantage and type Mark Twain’s The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn.

Over the next two years, Margery worked me hard. I was slow at work and ended up putting in more than the allocated 20 hours a week. The work was tedious, the research consuming, and put additional burden on my graduate coursework. But, to the envy of other fellow graduate assistants, Margery invited me to university events and spoke about me with pride to other professors. She had a plush office and I had a key to it, and a sectional desk, chair, and a bookshelf. This gave me dignity.

Over time it is the intangibles that I learned working for Margery that I have come to value more: work ethic, compassion, quality of work and enthusiasm for things to come.

That was 27 years ago. Margery was the first but there have been others—good, generous people who had no reason to help me.

Over the years, I have often asked myself if I am impacting someone else’s life and career as mine has been by others.

Admittedly, I fall short when I look at that barometer.

But there is time.

And over time, my only measure of my own success will be my ability to exceed what I do for others from what others have done for me.

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  1. It is quite a touching story. You gratitude towards what you have received is coming out so well in the story. The last line to give it back to the society is truly applaudable! Thanks for sharing your story Girish!

  2. Girish, you have a way of writing that draws the reader into the scene you are describing. Thank you for sharing this very special story.

  3. Great story and a great message. I have been extremely lucky to have worked with people who have shown immense faith in my abilities even when I was filled with doubts. It is definitely important to give back and help others in their journeys and make an impact – big or small. In my role, I do that get the opportunity and the feeling is awesome. Thank you for sharing this story!

  4. I’ll buy your book any time you publish one – thanks for sharing, Girish!

  5. Thank you Girish for sharing your story. It brings back memories to most of us as we think back to those that have had influence in our lives & career. On this International Women’s Day we say thank you to all of those that have had a hand in our success, for me today that is Joe Sottosanti, my Margery Sandberg. I also thank you for the opportunities that you are providing and the priority you have for diversity and inclusion at JDA.

  6. Thank you Girish for sharing such a beautiful and impactful story. Beautiful because you make us feel that we were right there in not just the cold autumn breeze but also sharing the tension you had to land that job. I am sure Dr. Margery Steinberg is as proud of you today as she was then.
    And finally, the success or the joy one gets from contributing to others’ success is second to none. Thank you for all the values you share and also for walking that talk.

  7. Girish- you engaged me from the first to the last word of this blog. What a beautiful story and so much to learn from this experience. Thanks for sharing it on this day of International women’s day! #inspirational #awesomeoness

  8. Mary Ketter

    Girish – the way you told your story was inspiring but you did it in such a way that it made me think I was right there eating tuna salad sandwiches with you! Because of your story, I commit to make a difference and recognize when to give someone a chance – thanks for the reminder!

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